Nice is a behavior or characteristic of behavior where one
sacrifices the self for to spare the emotions or feelings of
Nice behaviors emerge when we are insecure with ourselves
or our knowledge of a subject.
It’s a form of walking on egg-shells and obfuscation from
objective reality. It alters the nature and manner in which
information is communicated to spare the emotions of the
recipient or the communicator.
The characteristics of “Nice” become an avoidance strategy
aimed to please and subjugate objective reality.
The right thing to do is openly and honestly communicate
thoughts, ideas, and opinions when they serve the rational
self interest of ourselves and others. This is “kind” and it is the
right way to be.